2011 memories

2011 will be over soon and everyone is racking their brain over their new year resolutions. 

Start them today, hey, start them tomorrow. Big or small, put a challenge out there for yourself and believe, work hard, and never quit to achieve them. 

This year has been full of so many good memories, and the bad memories never seem to far behind but as always, I make sure that I make those good memories outshine the bad all the time. 

In no particular order, this what I have loved most about this year. 

1. A friendship grew between Julia and I, and I'm very appreciative of it. She is a shinning star.

2. My love for Florence and the Machine grew fonder. 

3. I went to her concert with my bestest cousin. 

4. Went to the best wedding ever, Lesa and Adam's. 

5. That wedding also has one of my very best memories. Dancing shoeless and singing at the top of my lungs to "Dog Days Are Over" with Lesa. 

6. I got my braces taken off. FREEDOM! 

7. Iovan and I went to one of the most beautiful places on planet earth. Niagara Falls. 

8. I got to hold hands with that sweet man as we watched the Falls from a boat. Letting the mist hit our faces. 

9. We added to our family. 

10. I had my wisdom teeth taken off. I don't know why that is one of my best memories, but I sure did enjoy all the apple sauce and ice cream.....mmmmmmm

I could probably go on with my memories, there are so many more, but I sincerely hold these very close to my ♥

I can't wait to see what 2012 brings. I'm crossing my fingers for happiness, love, peace, and new adventures! 

little valuable lessons 3

Be amazed by almost everything!

Sometimes, you need to drop it like it's hot.

If you don't understand a situation, try seeing it a different way.

Don't judge people. You don't know them at all. Not even your family members

Eat and drink as much as you can. You never know when you might be isolated in some forest, desert, or room for days. (I've been watching too many thriller movies where people get into accidents and have no access to food or water. I'm freaked out)

When you embark into a new adventure, be careful. :)

Don't feel bad if you find something a little funny in a sad situation. Life's too short to be too sad.

You know what is important in a relationship other than trust? Laughter.

Every once in a while...hide somewhere and take a nap.

♥♥♥

Little Bullies.

I always think that kids words can hurt you more than an adult. They are so blunt and have no filter and they don't think of the repercussions. They make fun of each other and put each other down. It's saddens me when I hear that kids are getting bullied so much that they have to revert to suicide.

Why?

Where are the kids learning all this hate? Why isn't anyone doing anything about this? Where the [****] are the parents?

Exactly. Parents. I always think that kids learn hate where they spend their time the most. Home. Parents bully each other in front of kids. Parents can't afford a babysitter and they turn to the number one babysitter nowadays, TV, where so much stupid crap is being shown. Second babysitter, Internet. Then they go to school and learn more hate from other kids.

Now, I'm not saying that this bullying has just showed up out of nowhere, come on now, racism, sexism, and every other -ism out there has been in this world since humanity can remember, but it has only gotten stronger. Nowadays, anyone can sit behind a screen and type the meanest and cruelest things to ANYONE in the world.

And now, little kids are dying. Their minds have not developed to be strong enough, so they think that the easy way out is the wrong one.

Now, I'm not saying that I'm perfect, even writing about this, I can remember how I've put people down before, yesterday, now.

We do it constantly, on Facebook, with friends, and even not on purpose.

Remember when that Rebecca Black song came out? How many millions of statuses on Facebook popped out about how much she sucks and couldn't stand listening to it one more time. That is you being a bully.

Oh you were stating your opinion? How bout, if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all.

If you are parent, please teach your children the importance of not bullying and not being a victim of it because what if it was your child being bullied? What if he/she grows up with the lowest self-esteem because one little child bullied him/her so much to the point of damage?

And if you are not a parent, you are definitely a sister, brother, cousin, friend, etc...

Change the world to a better place where little kids can actually have a chance to grow.

Protection.

Yesterday I was minding my own business, eating my delicious chicken wrap whilst reading the Red Eye, when I came across an article. It was about pets and shelters and that's when my appetite diminished.

Did you know that every dog that gets dropped off at a shelter from an unwanted family must go through an evaluation to see if they are adoptable?

Especially pit bulls.

They all go through multiple tests and if they don't pass them, it's bye bye, baby.

Are you crying?

An estimated 3-4 million cats and dogs are euthanized per year. Chicago alone euthanized 11,000 cats last year.

I remembered how I first got my baby Duchess. The owner was trying to sell her but at the moment I just had no money to get a puppy. Days later he asked me again if I wanted her because he was going to give her out for free but wanted to give it to the right hands. Even then I thought long and hard before saying yes, later I had to convince my mother about getting her because as soon as she heard "pit bull" come out of my mouth she let out a big fat "NO!" Having to educate her about how pit bulls got a bad name (and I educated myself also) and after showing her a picture of her:

Me: Mom! Look at her! (showing picture)
Mom: OH MY GOODNESS! That's not a pit bull, that's ADORABLE!

Now Duchess has a home, and we got a new family member.

And not too long ago, Lucky came into the picture and I wasn't so sure about having her (err, him, we found out later that she was a he all along.) No one was properly taking care of him. Don't get me wrong, he was being bombarded with kisses and squeezes but no one wanted to claim financial responsibility for him. I made a call to the shelter and it was all set up to take him that afternoon. My mom called me later on and asked if I was going to take him because she didn't want to be the one to send the cat to his death. I never even thought about that before she put it that way. Something happened and he finally lived up to his name. He got Lucky that some people got a change of heart and actually called a vet to get his shots so that he could officially live with us.

Duchess got a brother and we got one cat off the death sentence.

People, if you have a pet and haven't spayed or neutered them, remember you are not giving them a chance to give life but you are giving them the chance to kill that life.

Want a pet? Adopt. So many puppies and kitties in steel cages waiting for you to come save them. Save them.

Thankful.

"Small minds don't get far with their small feet made of gossip and hurtful remarks. Open minds grow into big trees that are only trying to reach the sky and stars."

Thanksgiving came and left and although this holiday was about taking a time and remembering to appreciate what we have won and lost. To be grateful of what we have in the present and to await what comes in the future. I paid no attention. I felt nothing. 

Why not? 

Because I've been doing it every day, every night this past year. Don't wait ONE day a year to take time to tell someone that you are thankful for them. Say it every day. Say it or just think of it.

Every day should be a taken with appreciation, it should be taken like a gift.

These past few days I spent with family and friends, I've had a smile from ear to ear because I was so grateful to be in the presence of so much love. 

Tonight, a simple and quiet day. Woke up, told the sweet man that holds my heart that I loved him, took baby Duchess for a (misty) walk, did chores, helped paint the dining room with my family, ate pizza, and watched a movie with them.

Thankful for this simple Sunday night.

and thankful for beautiful music like this....

little valuable lessons part 2

Remember, curiosity killed the cat. Well, in this case, the cat can kill you.

 

Sometimes, you have to turn off the TV, computer, or iPod and play with your pets AND children.

Drink as much water as you possibly can. Also, if you are feeling a little bit upset, a little splash of water on your face helps. (This guy is probably very thirsty...or VERY upset.)

Remember, being a little mysterious is always good. Ooo, so misterioso pelican ...

Try your hardest to not let anyone fall down.

DON'T overdo it during the Holiday seasons.

 Its nice to lend someone an ear. People sometimes need that more than advice.

Climb as high as you can. All the time. And if you can, bring someone up with you. ♥ 

Next time you are talking to someone, or say "Thank you" or "How are you?" or "Have a nice day." Look at them in the eyes. Your words will mean and matter so much more. ♥

Thanksgiving is literally around the corner...and if you feel down and feel like you have nothing to be thankful, well, be thankful that you can at least see this. Blind people would do anything to see your world for half a minute.

Spectrum..

Well, being unselfish is more complicated than I thought. It's hard because I've always been taught to put myself first always except when it's family. I carry that in my heart all the time but I have a hard time with people that have no blood relation to me. Strangers will never appreciate the kindness that comes out of people and that is one thing that scares. THERE I go again. Why should I care that my kind actions be recognized? I should give and run away. Never seeing or hoping to see a reaction out of them.

Ok, I got it. Give and run away. Give and run away with a smile in my heart.

I can't do this overnight ya know. :)

Tomorrow, is only a day away.

little valuable lessons

Open your eyes....

  Walk around and explore your world...

Realize and learn that not everything with a hard outer shell is hard inside also. (this mother alligator gently picking up her baby)

Sometimes you just have to put your hands up...and have faith that things happen for a reason

 Make new friends. Even try to friend your oldest enemy...

Get a little silly sometimes

 "Bear" hug as much as you can ;) ♥

And never...ever push someone down.

Love Love Love ♥♥♥

Untitled.

I want to learn to be the most unselfish person. Is that possible? I want to learn how to give and TRULY not expect anything in return.

So many people say this all the time but deep in their thoughts they get so upset when nobody gives anything back so they revert back to their old ways of taking taking taking because they sure as hell know that no one is willing to give anymore.

P.S. You know, I've slowly reverted back into my old ways of thinking bad of the people that live in this world. Its hard not to ignore when there is so much violence, hatred, and negativity in this little tiny blue planet. It's hard but I STILL believe it's possible to truly see that deep down in everyone...there is good. God doesn't create bad people. They just stop believing in anything so they stop caring but if someone could show them the good...then maybe it wouldn't be so bad at all.

P.S.S My "You're beautiful" campaign has not stopped but it was been reformed. I think when I started saying and thinking "I'm beautiful" I was really looking at the external me and of everyone. Then I woke up and smelled the mothereffing coffee. You have to be beautiful inside first. You have to be beautiful well deep in your thoughts and soul so that it can break the outside shell and no one will be able to doubt the beauty that you exude. You will make this world a more beautiful place with your beautiful mind... But I know that everyone has a beautiful soul, we just have to believe it.

Ceremonials

ALBUM IS PHENOMENAL!

Ms. Florence Welch does it again with her unbelieveable music, lyrics, voice. Ugh. She beats Adele. I'm sorry but she does.

The soul this music contains, the life it breathes into my ears, the energy that flows into my heart.

I think I want to marry her.

 

"Hydrogen in our veins, it cannot hold itself, my blood is pouring
And the pressure in our bodies that echoes up above it is exploding
And our particles that burn it all because they yearn for each other
And although we stick together it seems that we are estranging one another"

Another day in the life of Marcy.

Crammed for my Anatomy exam once more and I couldn't possibly feel more confident that I got at least, AT LEAST an A-.

Yussssss. Studying on Sunday night football helped, although a few swear words were thrown out there while I studied about the medial collateral ligament....WHICH THEY MENTIONED DURING THE GAME BECAUSE A PLAYER SPRAINED IT!

Hahaha. Marcela 1 School ...well, I guess that one gets a 1 too. haha

Bears won today and the night ended with my boyfriend and I doing the "Happy Bears won" dance and then he over did it as he flapped his arms like an eagle and made me "fake" shoot him down....aaaaand that is why I love him.

Night lovers of the night. Lovers of the world.

Smile ♥

Sunday's best :)

Ah! Love to be blessed with every day that I am given.

Mother is ok. Father is ok. My sisters are ok. My Duchess and Lucky are ok. We are all going to be sleeping under same roof tonight and I'm so grateful for that.

It's a new month, and every day is a fresh start. I have been up and down this past year and as we get closer and closer to closing 2011, I'm looking back at how ridiculously loved and blessed I am. Life is good. God is good. Rain or shine, I'll never forget to appreciate every breath that I take every smile that I see, every laugh that I hear, every new friend I make, all the old friends I have, and that special love I have for that special someone.

My sisters are still ridiculously silly.

All the girls are in the car and my sister starts to move around while the car is still moving.
Me: Diana! Stop moving! My mom is going to get arrested! See, there is a cop right there and just pulled over someone!
Diana: Geez, chill.
Belen: Yeah, what is the cop gonna do while he is pulling someone over right now? "Oh, wait right here. I got to go pull someone else over."
Everyone: BAHAHAHAHAHA

Well, it was funny when it happened. You had to be there.

My cat and puppy love each other. Well, Lucky scratches Duchess less. I guess when your balls get snip snipped, you're not that tough anymore.

It's been a while since I've done this but I think that since today was so good to me, it deserved to be closed with a laugh, a smile, and another laugh.

I love you, Sunday list ♥

I absolutely fell head over heels this immensely cute costume idea.

UP!

My Anatomy class can be a pain, yet such an eye opener. We are truly a beautiful piece of art. 

Anytime I need to have my ears cleaned out from all the bullshit I hear...I put this on, and then my soul becomes cleaned. 

My mom never fails to call me "mi vida" (her life) when I call her on the phone...but then this happens.

Must have an exit strategy at all times before calling madre!

I love that someone else out there has gone through this, as I have...in many occasions.

This idea, is probably one the most romantic ideas anyone has ever had. 

♥Long Distance Relationship Pillows♥
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The reason why I've so easily fallen into the trap of forwarding silly chain messages. I don't want to die.

Happens oh so many times...

If looks could kill...these two would have killed whoever put them up to this.

BAHAHAHA!

Goodnight! Sweet dreams...