On this Friday morning....dance. ☺

Feel the music and shake it. Feel the music but don't break it. Feel the music and dance to it.

 and if you are home alone....dance butt naked. :))

 

 

 

 

Love and be loved.

Time is not for wasting on hate. Time is for loving those who matter to you. Time is not for negativity. Time is only for the positivity in your life. Believe in me. Believe that life is only about love, happiness, and peace.

Time is for love. Time is for happiness. Time is for peace.

Repeat it. Shout it. Believe it. Engrave it in your heart and mind. Every day can be perfect and it is up to you and no one else to make it perfect but YOU. No one can bring you down if you don't let it. You are the controller of your own life, of your emotions in your heart, of the thoughts in your mind. Let some seconds pass by if your frustrations build up.....then let them go. It's nothing but spam in your life. Get rid of that poop. ♥

Picture Perfect Thursday.

Yeah, I'm starting picture perfect Thursday because I was just too impatient to wait till Sunday to post it on my "I love you, Sunday list" and why wait, you know? I mean, if you really want to do something, THEN DO IT! Let's not wait because then maybe one day we won't have the opportunity to do it. It's just a bunch of pictures that make my day and I hope it makes yours too!

So here it goes!!!!

1. :)

2. Someone was making sure they got him in the picture...

3. Not impressed

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7. I admit, I got confused a lot in the beginning...

8. :)

9. Chivalry is dead because we, women, killed it.

10. Happens all the time to me...

Sweet dreams! :)

Easy as riding a bike...

Today, I rode a bike for the first time in a while and while I did I was remembering how hard and difficult it was to learn how to ride a bike. I thought to myself when I was little, "HOW IS THIS BIKE EVER GONNA STAND UP WITHOUT MY TRAINING WHEELS!" Even braking was strange and weird for me. I always thought that if I used my brake, the bike would send me flying full force ahead....so instead of the bike doing that for me, I always threw myself out of the bike as a way to stop myself. True story.
 
So like everyone, I had my training wheels and still had one of my parents holding on to my seat after the training wheels were off for a while. And now that I am 24 years old and proudly riding without training wheels I think to myself, why did I ever think this was hard? Why did it seem like the impossible to me? And I think it's because we always put negativity in our mind before we even try ANYTHING! We always say, "No way! I can't do that!" "That's impossible!" We become afraid of falling and hurting ourselves. I think that we need to change that habit and whenever we are face to face with something we think is impossible to achieve, say "I can do this." Put that fear in the back of your head and believe that you can do anything. Before you know it, you are gonna look back and see that you have no training wheels and no one is holding your seat to help you from not falling. Believe and everything can be as easy as riding a bike.

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Today.....

Something was off today. It all started when I was walking to work in the morning. Every time my sister works at the same time I do, I get off at the stop she gets off, which is only one before mine. So I was walking and  I don't know why I got this sudden urge to look up but I was looking up at the buildings and all of a sudden I started to see them as cages. Tall, steel cages. And then I looked down and I saw everyone walking and I was wondering where they were going, where did they work, were they happy? To tell you the truth, it got me depressed because here we are, going to school, graduating to go to work at this place that some end up hating for their rest of their life. And then there are the people that go to school for something that they are really passionate about and they graduate and they are standing right there in front of you with a Dunkin Donuts coffee on hand, your favorite martini, or working at your local Walgreens. I don't want to end up being a hostess for the rest of my life, or serving you cocktail drinks with a side of smile and a little prayer hoping that you will tip me more than ten percent. But I understand, times are hard and the economy is in the shitter along with your taco bell from last night. I'm grateful I have a job. I am. But I don't want to be sad, depressed, and frustrated for all of my life because of the mediocre job I have. I need there to be a sign that everything will be fine, that my life will have a purpose every day. To tell you the truth, it had me down all morning, almost to the points of tears. (Yes, I'm a cry baby, but at least it shows that I give a fuck, right? Right.) But I kept telling myself...everything will be alright. Everything will be alright.

EVERYTHING WILL BE ALRIGHT.

And here I am typing this...and feeling like everything will be alright. We all have that one period in their life when they think their life might not be going in the direction they want, but you have control, and you can win in life. Win your life back. If you can still read this, it's not too late.

No matter how small you are....there is always something big underneath.

Beautiful weekend! ILYSL!

Had the most amazing weekend and I couldn't be any happier and blessed to know that I have so many people that are great to me! I loved every single second of this week and I can't wait for many more days like them. My lovely boyfriend treated me to a beautiful dinner and an awesome boat ride and we ended the night with good people. I love my Iovan. I truly appreciate him...even if he doesn't know it. I do. :) My family decided to treat me out for a day at the beach which I also love! They are awesome because they know how much I love being at the beach. I think everyone's life should be like a day at the beach. Relaxation. mmmmmmmmmm

AND they surprised me with a cake in the end! I ♥ my family. Anywho...here goes the things I loved the most this week!!! 

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1. My family.☺

2. My sisters. (including Annie who did not come to the beach with us) ♥

4. These past few days, the weather has been kuurrrrazy. Lightning, heavy rain, heavy wind....but I truly love mother nature! 

5. I wanna go wherever this finger goes...☺

6. It doesn't matter if you are not blood related, of the same species, or the same race....anyone can be a mother if you truly love and care for babies like if they were your own.♥

Taken by NY times

7. The beach and this new app that I downloaded on my phone that can take pictures like a polaroid camera. ☺

8. This restaurant at the beach. I wanna go there some day.

This is in the middle of the Indian Ocean off the coast of Zanibar, Tanzania. Souce here

9. These underwater pictures are so beautiful!!!

Source here

10. This gif....freaking love NPH. 

11. Everyone who has had a problem with Auto-correct with your phone feels this person's pain but its SO FUNNY!...

12. THE CLAAAAAAaaaaAAAWwww! LOL! GET IT!? GET IT?! You know because when people reach for a cupcake their hands turn into a shape of a CLAW! hahahahaha! 

13. Albus Dumbledore is so wise. :) 

14. Charlie Day is so mothereffing hilarious. If it wasn't for him, Horrible Bosses would have been a C. ☺

15. AAAND THE BEST FOR LAST! IOVAN! GAH! He is truly amazing in every single way. I don't like people spending money on me. I rather they save it for them. Really. I just want their love and support. BUT the man went out of the way to make my day SPECTACULAR! Ate by the river DOWNTOWN (one of my favorite places, ever) took me on a river and lake boat tour, BEAUTIFUL! and he ended the night with MUCH MORE FUN. He doesn't know HOW good he is to me. He thinks he knows...but he only knows one tenth of it. ♥ 

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Ooops, I went over ten! Oh well! I have many more but I will save them for next week. Loving life, didn't receive one present, and that is exactly want I wanted. I just wanted experiences and it's exactly what I received. SO BLESSED. ♥

Spread love and cake! ☺

Take a compliment...

This morning, my coworker Maria stood in front of a door in which she could see her reflection. She said, "Just as I predicted. Perfection." I died. I just died because she makes me smile and the things she says sometimes makes me go bananas for her.

Even if she was just playing around, I think everyone should stand in front of a mirror and tell themselves that every day until you believe it. Until you make people believe it. And when someone says "you're beautiful", "you're amazing", "you can do anything" then take that compliment and run with it! Because you are beautiful, you are amazing, you can do anything, and you are perfect in your very own way.